How do I confess to my crush who had a traumatic past with his previous partner without losing the friendship?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 16:02
The reason is you're setting yourself to get hurt after they realize that this vulnerability i am displaying to you is over, I'm able to heal and accept the past, I plan to move forward, take responsibility of what I need to do with my life.
I'm like why do you keep telling about your ex to me, I'm guessing you still have feelings for her?!
I guess she has issues with her face, doesn't like it. I mean I have imperfections as well, I'm insecure with my face but her temperament is really awful.
I think she finally realized that accepting yourself is the only way youll actually be happy by loving how you look, loving the value of life.
I'm like you come into work to earn some sorta salary, maybe make friends but keeping tabs on me, stalking me everywhere isn't a good idea because I don't even care about this nasty girl.
He told me I like real blondes more, that I hate your mushy heart it's too sweet. He said..that I reminded him of his ex, decided to dump me, told me..a matter of a fact, I plan to go to Wisconsin, tell my ex that cheated on me to fuck off but then he says..I actually wouldn't say that to her. I'm just venting, that's it.
But I remained kind, modest and that pissed him off, his new girlfriend because we had to work around each other. The worse thing you can do to someone that's angry, unhappy is to show them you're not happy, that you're strong.
I became jealous, his best friend was such a doucje bag for what he said to me. He told me my best friend is grieving over his ex still, that you should respect him while he's hurt, grieving.
This girl kept copying me, stalking me and bullying me, could never get a reaction from me. Finally she said the hell with me, decided to quit her job.
Angela
I told the friend well I'm his girlfriend, so what does that mean?! What about my feelings, how I feel?! The best friend blew me over, my boyfriend is being reluctant and mean to me.
I never heard from her again except throwing her life away, heading into a direction that makes her unhappy.
What was the worst decision you ever did?
Anyways, I think you should remain friends but not lead into a intimate relationship unless you really know each other, are physically attracted to each other.
Sadly..he dumped me, that was it. He ran to the ex, the ex dumped him completely, said that's the whole reason I cheated on you. It was my way to get rid of you because I just can't stand you anymore.
I guess..he went out with some blonde hair girl after that, treated her way better then me. As for me I like my blonde hair that's fake, being alternative hasn't ever changed me as kids. I know I'm being myself, so that will change as I'm older and grey.
I tried to fix what is wrong with me, I kept dressing to impress him, buying him gifts. I guess nothing was ever good enough, sadly it wasn't.
You stay calm, nice. But I really think it's not a good idea to go after someone who's been hurt, is grieving over the ex, past trauma.
I was so happy he said yes to me, then as well started to hang out I found out he's dwelling over his ex, keeps talking bad and good about the ex .
That's my best advice I can give you.
I had a ex once who kept talking about his ex, said rude and hurtful things to me. I actually chased him, said I wanted to date him. He saw my looks, said yea..she's cute to my friend, yea I wanna go out with her .
Love,
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